At Rod of Iron Trusts and Estates Counsel, we guide families through life’s most difficult transitions with clarity, confidence, and purpose.




Rod of Iron Trusts & Estates Counsel
Whatever brings you here, you’ll find an attorney with a genuine commitment to protecting what matters most to you. Life’s most important moments, building a legacy, caring for a vulnerable loved one, or navigating loss, deserve more than a transactional attorney. At Rod of Iron Trusts and Estates Counsel, we offer comprehensive guidance across estate planning, probate and trust administration, conservatorships, guardianships, inheritance investigations, and litigation.
These matters rarely stay in one lane. Probate and trust administration alone can touch on family law, taxes, real estate, and business interests, and missteps can mean foreclosure, costly delays, strained relationships, or personal financial exposure. Conservatorships and guardianships carry their own emotional and legal weight, requiring someone who understands both the law and the human stakes involved. We bring both to every case.
When disputes arise, whether over a will, a trustee’s conduct, or an executor who is being unfair, failed to account for assets, or let property fall into disrepair, we step in with purpose. Our litigation practice is built to hold people accountable, protect your rights, and ensure that estates and trusts are administered the way they were intended.
Wherever you are in the process, we’re here to guide you through it, smoothly, lawfully, and with your family’s future in mind.
Attorney • Veteran • Police Academy Instructor
A trusted advisor in Bay Area trusts and estates law, Bryan brings legal acumen and creative problem-solving to his practice. Whether drafting tailored comprehensive estate plans, navigating contested proceedings, or untangling complex questions of succession, he crafts legal strategies that protect what matters most. When disputes arise, whether in the courtroom or at the negotiating table, Bryan draws on his calm demeanor, command of the process, and litigation readiness to guide families through life's most difficult transitions. Committed to safeguarding people, assets, and relationships, he helps clients move forward through even the most contested matters with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.
"It was a pleasure to work with Bryan. He was extremely patient, careful and fair as he helped me with my mother's estate. "
- Christy C.
San Francisco
"I was in need of setting up a Living Trust and was recommended by a friend to call Attorney Bryan Thompson, aka Rod of Iron Estate Planning. I could not have made a better choice."
- Marion B.
Oakland
"As successor trustee, it was helpful that Bryan explained things in easy to understand terms. We just completed distributing the assets and I plan on working with him on my estate plan."
- Jessica G.
Oakland
"This was a very difficult time for me and Bryan made it very easy and understanding and very supportive, explaining to me every step of the way"
- Sonya V.
Oakland
Planning, probate, and litigation can feel overwhelming, but we're here to help. We've compiled answers to the most frequently asked questions.
Not always. Some assets will transfer directly to heirs without court involvement.
Even the most straightforward probate takes a year to a year and a half. Contested estates, missing heirs, or complex assets can extend that timeline significantly.
Yes. A handwritten will on a napkin is perfectly fine. That alone can avoid unanticipated results. However, a comprehensive plan drafted by an attorney gives you far more control and places your family in a place of peace and empowerment when you are sick or pass away. A revocable living trust may be best if you want a bit more control with distributions and more streamlined administration.
The sooner the better. Start with the baseline decisions and documents, and update the plan as your life evolves. Marriage, children, a new business, and buying a home are all common triggers for revisiting it, but you do not need a major life event to begin. That is also why having a good relationship with your estate planning attorney matters. When the plan is already established updates are quick and natural rather than starting from scratch every few years. The right time is before you need it.
No. Courts care about the best interest of the child, not bloodlines. A neighbor, family friend, or anyone with a meaningful relationship and a genuine commitment to the child’s wellbeing can be appointed guardian.
A parent can ask the court to terminate the guardianship, but it is not automatic. The court will evaluate whether returning the child serves their best interest, and we can help you prepare for and respond to that process.
For situations of shorter duration, a durable POA is frequently sufficient; so long as it is being honored by institutions. That said, the longer and more complex the situation, the more likely something eventually breaks down whether that be an institution refuses to honor the document, a placement decision gets contested, or family members disagree and that’s typically when conservatorship becomes necessary.